When you finally decide to muster up the courage to go out to meet women…
You come to conclusion that people default to going to bars and nightclubs.
That is… until you go there one night and realize…
That it’s not your scene because of the dimmed lights, loud music, and alcohol.
You realize that your personality doesn’t mesh well with drunk party girls and…
You want to expand your options of venues to meet the potential girl of your dreams 🙂
And although bars and clubs are the go to spot where everyone else mingles…
The reality is that there are women everywhere, all around you, and not just in bars and clubs.
Which is why today, I will share with you 10 great places to meet women outside of bars and nightclubs.
Sound good? Perfect.
Let’s get started. First up…
Top 10 Venues You Can’t Miss Out On
When was the last time you saw a gorgeous girl walking down the streets and thought to mind your own business?
How many times did you think to yourself:
If only I knew what to say and didn’t have sweaty palms. I’d be able to sweep her off her feet!
You might be socially conditioned to believe that it’s rude to casually stop girls on the street.
Lucky for you, I’m here to tell you…
That girls love to be approached during the day… if done correctly.
The streets is where you can meet some of the most unique quality girls that you probably won’t ever find in bars or nightclubs.
First, women will respect you…
Because… 99% of men don’t have the balls to walk up to a women in broad daylight.
Second, women usually have fantasies in their heads…
They would much rather tell their friends they met their partner on the streets compared to a bar/nightclub.
And lastly, women love compliments…
Worst case if she rejects you…
You still made her day, and she will probably tell her friends how a random confident guy approached her on the streets and told her that she was cute.
2. School Campuses
College campuses are prime locations for meeting girls.
Because of the pure fact that…
- It’s an acceptable environment to mingle and mate with new people.
- It’s a place where people are told to be more social and open-minded in order to get invited to parties.
College is where people discover new interests and hobbies…
It’s a place where you find commonalities with the opposite sex…
This is why women look forward to being approached here.
If you wander around campus one day, you’ll notice a overwhelming amount of hot girls walking around by themselves.
Another reason why school campuses are one of the best spots to talk to girls is because…
None of the guys take action. Despite the fact that there are single women everywhere.
By you mustering up the courage to strike up that conversation…
You’ll instantly separate yourself from 99.99% of the guys there.
Trust me, you will stand out. One thing to keep in mind is that…
A lot of these girls are killing time and waiting for their next class to start.
While some have finished classes and are killing time.
It’s the perfect time to go talk to them because you never know…
You might end up going on an adventure with her to explore the crannies of the campus.
She might invite you back to her dorm which could be a 5 minute walk from campus center 😉
3. Shopping Malls
This place is heaven for meeting gorgeous women because…
Girls typically have no plans and are usually shopping all day.
Another bonus is the variety of girls you can choose from.
Malls are pretty diverse in different races of girls being there.
Depending where you are, there will be…
- White girls
- Asian girls
- Latina girls
- And more!
And for the guys that are thinking about what to say…
You can use your surroundings to help you not run out of things to talk about.
Just look around you and something will pop in your mind to talk about.
The mall is a great place to connect with a girl and get to know her because…
- You will see clothing shops, coffee shops and food options in your peripheral vision…
- You can use that as a way to bring up any topic to talk about.
- You can tell what type of girl she is depending on where she shops and what she buys.
If she has nothing to do other than window-shop, which is majority of the times…
Take her on an instant date, walk around the mall, and even grab a cup of coffee in the food court!
4. Grocery Stores
If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cute-cumber!
Everyone goes grocery shopping.
But not everybody thinks of it as a place to meet beautiful girls because…
It’s not a venue typically conducive to romantic encounters.
Plus, women don’t expect to meet an interesting guy in the frozen meats aisle…
Grocery stores are a great place to meet women because…
- You get to talk about food, what they like to eat, what their diet is like, etc…
- You get a chance to meet a girl who takes care of her health especially if you shop at Whole foods.
Another big reason is that you majority of the times you don’t have to stop her….
Unlike the streets where people are power-walking, women aren’t typically in a rush…
And are just browsing for items to put in their grocery baskets.
5. Book stores/Libraries
Even though book stores are a goldmine for meeting women…
Most guys don’t have the courage to talk to women in this environment.
If you are into personal development like me and enjoy reading books…
This is a great place for you to meet girls that fall into your “list” of attractive qualities in a chick…
Because chances are, girls there probably like reading as well.
And boom! You now have something to talk about.
I mean, who doesn’t like cute nerdy girls?
In this venue, girls here aren’t on work time and are usually willing to hangout.
Keep in mind that you will stumble across a lot of shy girls here.
So for those guys that don’t like to yell and raise their voices inside clubs…
You can use indoor voices in your favor.
Here is a place for the more introverted types to meet their future girlfriends.
Another reason why this is a great venue is because most book stores have cafe/coffee shops in it.
Talk to her, and invite her to grab a quick drink with you and talk about your guys favorite genre of books to read.
In the end, who says the library should be a place of silence?
6. Starbucks/Coffee Shops
If you are a daily visitor at your nearby coffee shop…
You might be aware of the abundance of hot girls in your sight while standing in line.
Only difference between coffee shops and bars is…
Instead of alcohol, the drug is caffeine.
From my experience, there are a lot of attractive and intelligent women at coffee shops.
You have great logistics for the approach because..
- Girls are sitting.
- Girls are standing.
Ladies often go to coffee shops to get some work done on their laptops.
Here’s the problem:
Guys don’t have the balls to talk to that cute girl that’s standing in front of him in line.
Why is that?
It’s usually because of social pressure. You don’t want to be that guy that causes heads to turn.
But trust me on this…
The next time you are in this situation think:
Who on earth would have the balls to talk to that girl?
And just say hello.
This is a perfect venue to meet a girl, grab a drink with her…
Then go for an instant date for any of these venues in this article.
NOTE: If the social pressure of onlookers become a problem for the girl, simply apologize for startling her but never apologize for your approach or yourself.
People naturally flock to beaches and parks during the summer time.
Beaches and parks offer a pleasant and down to earth atmosphere…
But don’t make a big deal out of the fact that they are basically half naked.
In fact, you can even invite the girl to jump in the water with you and this can create a sexual tension between the both.
It’s the perfect opportunity to meet women who are also enjoying the chance to relax and let loose.
In both these locations, you have two major advantages:
- You won’t have to stop girls because they are in a fixed area.
- You will have a better chance for inviting her on an instant date to Starbucks!
Because a lot of girls here are most often on leisure time.
8. Social events/Social Circles
Social events like…
- Music concerts
- House Parties
- Even meetup.com
Is a prime place for open-minded individuals.
Everyone loves to have a good time and to let loose.
Go to any one of these places and you’ll find that girls are often in groups…
With their peers.
It’s best to go with one of your buddies and have him as your wingman.
If you’re at a music concert, you’ll have a lot of opportunities to escalate on women.
If you’re at a house party/barbecue… consider this as an networking event for singles.
People here are friendly and are looking to mingle.
The secret is to not treat your interactions like a cold-approach and be too try hard.
Expand your social circle and have some badass friends…
That way your buddy can vouch for your character and talk you up in front of the ladies.
Here, you’ll meet sophisticated and intelligent women.
This is also a perfect place for an instant-date.
My best piece of advice is to use opinion openers.
Mention something about that piece of art next to you…
And connect with her while you share your own opinions and perspectives.
Go around and explore the museum together.
Plus, women are not expected to get hit on here.
So they’ll definitely respect your confidence!
10. Public transports
When it comes to public transportation, it’s common to see people on their cellphones.
You will notice that everyone has their earbuds in and are trying to escape reality.
You know what’s also common?
A lot of hot girls being present. But all of the guys staring onto their devices.
Hey, are you actually texting someone, or are you playing video games?
Try that as your next opener.
People have been conditioned to mind their own business.
This is the perfect time to set yourself a part from the crowd:
- Make eye contact with the girl that has her eyes glued onto her Instagram newsfeed
- Exchange a smile, wave at her, and say the first thing that comes to your mind (doesn’t matter what it is)
- Keep it light-hearted and casual. Don’t push it too far, since there’s a lot of pressure.
My best piece of advice is:
To approach her immediately when you see her.
The longer you sit/stand there thinking of talking to her…
The more awkward your approach will become.
Figure out Which Venue Fits Your Personality
One of the first things you should do is to make a list of things you enjoy doing…
Find a way to meet women by doing that thing.
Make your dating life an extension of your passion/social life.
If you enjoy walking your dog, then go to a dog park to meet girls.
If you enjoy helping others, then pick a cause you’re interested in…
And volunteer there!
A close friend of mine met his girlfriend while competing in the Spartan Race.
Since he was in shape, he met a girl who was also in shape.
How awesome is that?
By joining events and groups you will:
- Meet females that might be interested in you.
- Meet female friends that will have other female friends they can introduce you to.
It’s seriously a win-win.
In the end, there’s no doubt that bars and clubs are one of the most common places to meet your potential parter.
But sometimes, you might be over that scene.
I just gave you a TON of ideas.
So go out there and experiment for yourself and see which one you like 🙂